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So long, and thanks for all the fish

So long, and thanks for all the fish

I can never resist stealing that line from Douglas Adams. It’s just so good. A few people said to me when I was mulling out loud about the future of our blog and social media feeds, that I’d know what to do when the time came. You were right. Thank you. I had thought I […]

Transitions

Transitions

Every time I sit down to write, I get distracted. Usually, by looking at pretty houses, or by making our homecoming plans. It speaks to the transitional phase we’re in, and how all over the place we are. How all over the place I am, though that’s nothing new. I’m feeling like we’re between lives, […]

On friendships

On friendships

I had meant to write a snapshot week this week, because it’s a biggie. We’ve got a huge hurdle in the sale of Mirounga to leap, and I have a couple of other big things going on personally. In the end, though, I can’t bear to write a day by day account. Some part of […]

Facing reality in Bequia

Facing reality in Bequia

I never meant to go so long without writing. I’ve had so many blog thoughts ready to flow out of my fingers, and so little time. They pass me by. Keep me awake at night. Then, by the time I might sit down to write, they’re gone. I had thought to write a snapshot a […]

Happy birthday to us! (and some big news)

Happy birthday to us! (and some big news)

We almost can’t believe it but it’s a year today since we posted our first blogs! We started to post six weeks before moving to Bequia, and started by introducing ourselves and sharing our sailing history. Then the blog has become about moving to the Caribbean, adjusting to life onboard, and our adventures sailing the […]

At the top of the rollercoaster

At the top of the rollercoaster

I’m not much of a rollercoaster person. At least I don’t think I am. Although I visited theme parks as a kid and teen, it was never about the rides. Give me the backlot tour at Universal Studios over a Big Dipper any day. And when I did go on rides, at the shows when […]

Mañana, living on island time, and work

Mañana, living on island time, and work

I’ve always been a rusher. Hurried. Impatient. I don’t sleep deeply. I find it hard to dawdle (except in supermarkets, when I’m crippled by indecision). I fidget. My short legs seem happiest at a trot. I plan, obsessively, and once I’ve started a plan I work tirelessly until there are results. My life is full […]

On Communities

On Communities

It might be in Grenada or Guadeloupe. It might be in the ABCs or San Blas. Or it might even be in French Polynesia or the Whitsundays. It could be a week, a month, or years. But we will continue to make connections, and see familiar hulls, and find ourselves stretching out on the sand […]

Settling into Mirounga – our first two weeks

Settling into Mirounga – our first two weeks

We’re now Mirounga’s owners, in every sense. The Thursday after we moved onboard we signed the registration papers, and a few days ago we went into the customs office to register as Mirounga’s crew. We’ve insured her. We’ve replaced her old SVG flag with a new one (and added a fun Bequia flag). We just […]